David Deangelo - 77 Laws Of Success With Women ... May 2026

The "laws" aren't legal rules but psychological principles. The most famous ones include:

Law #63: Build a mission bigger than women. The irony of the 77 Laws: if your only goal is to get women, you will repel them. You must have a purpose (business, art, fitness) that is more important than her.

Law #70: Outcome independence. You must reach a state where you genuinely do not care if she rejects you. When you need her, she doesn't want you. When you don't need her, she chases.

Law #77: The final law – "Learn to love the process." Success with women is not a destination. It is a personality upgrade. Every rejection is a data point. Every date is practice.

1. It’s Not About Money, Looks, or Status David DeAngelo - 77 Laws Of Success With Women ...

2. Attraction Isn’t a Choice

3. Be the Prize

Law #1: It is your job to lead. If you ask a woman, "So, what do you want to do?" on a first date, you have failed. DeAngelo argues that women constantly test men to see if they will fold under pressure. Always have a plan.

Law #4: Assume attraction. Instead of trying to "convince" a woman to like you, assume she already does (unless she explicitly walks away). This changes your body language from supplication to invitation. The "laws" aren't legal rules but psychological principles

Law #7: Do not seek permission. Men ask: "Can I kiss you?" High-value men state: "I want to kiss you." Or better, they read the vibe and act. Seeking permission signals low status.

No dating system is perfect. Critics argue:

However, even critics admit: The core principle of self-respect is timeless.

At the heart of DeAngelo's teachings are several core principles that underpin his 77 laws: 11. Be Unpredictable

19. Rejection Is Feedback, Not Failure

20. Authenticity Trumps Technique

10. Push-Pull Technique

11. Be Unpredictable

12. Lead, Don’t Ask